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the question:
Hey I'm a guy and I have a problem there's this one girl I really like and have liked her from kindergarten up to high school and she doesn't know how I feel and I'm too nervous to say anything about it but every day I'm nice to her and before 0 per I'm waiting out side for her (in the rain sometimes) for her to get to school just to talk to her for the min in which it takes to get to class does anybody have any suggestions that might get her to like me

sheila’s advice
She knows you like her, unless she is stupid that is.

Ask her if she wants to hang out one day after school so you can have more time together and see if the vibe feels mutual.

~Sheila

trixie’s advice
You can't make someone like you. Period. You can make someone NOT like you - but not vice versa. You sound like a great guy. Sweet. So ask her out. I'm sure she knows you like her. So she's either shy - or likes you only as a friend. Better to find out now than later. I mean really - what if she's been waiting since kindergarten for you to ask her out?

Good luck!

~Trixie

read what others have had to say:

Name:	andrea
Date:	Tue Apr 1 15:26:30 2003
Wrote... why is a guy on this site ne way. do u not notice that it is called girl posse? idiot. 165.199.3.43 submitter's IP address

Name:	jen
Date:	Thu Mar 20 04:13:02 2003
Wrote... im curious-have you asked her out yet??? it seems like its been a while- did you gather up the courage to tell her? Remember you're also friends!!! Things get weird if the feeling isnt mutual...just realize what will happen in any possible scenario and be ready for it! good luck to you. 66.171.51.34 submitter's IP address

Name:	Sam and Annie
Date:	Thu Feb 13 19:04:49 2003
Wrote... First of all you sound like a complete sweetie, too bad you didnt include your number! Anyways, sit back and let things happen if it was meant to be it will happen, if not you have my email address! Love Sam and Annie 205.188.208.172 submitter's IP address

Name:	Gemma
Date:	Sun Feb 2 09:28:31 2003
Wrote... Just go right up to her and ask her out, don't seem phsyced or she'll think that somethings wrong. if she doesn't like u then at least you'll livve thorught it knowing that you don't have to worry! Personally she should like you, you seem like a really sweet guy to do all that for her. 64.230.105.16 submitter's IP address

Name:	Cass
Date:	Sun Dec 29 08:34:07 2002
Wrote... There is absoulutely no reason to be nervous! Just get the girl on her own and ask her out simple! sometimes girls hide their feelings towards guys, she really waiting for you to make the move! 195.93.32.13 submitter's IP address

Name:	Lyndsay
Date:	Sun Dec 22 10:51:28 2002
Wrote... Hi! Listen, I have some good advice to you. I understand how you feel. Everyone have crushes, don't worry. The thing you gotta do is to ask her out (don't be shy). If she says yes, she's interested in you. If she says no or tries to find an excuse, she's not. And don't worry if she doesn't like you. There are plenty fish in the sea! :) 212.56.128.188 submitter's IP address

Name:	Amy
Date:	Mon Dec 9 16:40:53 2002
Wrote... Look you can't just make a girl like you just like that and i'm pretty sure she wouldn't like you acting it up so just be yourself I mean say you did go out with her you get fed up acting in front of her so go on be yourself and something might happen ! 195.93.48.13 submitter's IP address

Name:	Claire & Bonnie
Date:	Mon Dec 2 15:42:45 2002
Wrote... U seem like a really honest bloke who is trying 2 hard u can't make sum1 fall 4 u at a drop of a hat. You can however drop hints 2 let her no how u feel. She may feel the same. Best thing 2 do is not b 2 pushey. Let love lead the way. If she is an old friend and you have lotsa guts you cud tell her to her face, if not try and catch her eye, spend more time talking and really gettin to know her. Be cool and dont creep her out. GOOD LUCK!! 217.137.214.36 submitter's IP address

Name:	Kathryn
Date:	Thu Nov 28 11:03:03 2002
Wrote... Once again. You guys are all the same. You don't know what it means to be a girl and have a boy crushing on you. Well most girls play hard to get. And if she is. You can play hard to get also, i know that girls want, what they is what they cant have. Or you can just do it the old fashin way, say hi. And You might want to bring some roses along with you. Now one thing I have done before is talk to people I know who know the person I like. They tell me what they like and they are interested in,or what they have done. That way I can see what we have in common or not, or I can strike up a good conversation. Any way. Girls are realy hard. They want something out of a man. Some of wich are the following... Funny, nice, sweet, smart, not the boss, hugable but not mushy. I hope these things will help you.As I always say. "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never now what your gona get,". Good Luck. 152.163.188.70 submitter's IP address

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