An Online Wanna Be?
by Gina

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I started talking with guy who lived about 50 miles from me on an online dating site. he sounded charming had a good attitude, and he was attractive. He said he worked for Intel, had been in the army, gave me an array of sad stories how this person in his family died (including all of a sudden his mother) talked at length about his divorce to an illegal alien, she was pregnant, that he went to college, on and on and on..

Well, we met and about 10 minutes into the conversation I caught him looking at my chest (made me very uncomfortable, of course however i thought he was just your typical man. told him that this online thing was new to me and i felt strang about it. This man proceeded to tell me that there were alot of weirdos that prayed upon women on these sites (he should know he's one of those individuals)...Couple weeks passed and he invited me to his area. I went to his home (ladies do not ever do that) where I met his 11 year old daughter who approached and hugged me having never met me before, ODD?? I went inside this beautiful, gorgeous house from the outside only when I entered inside, I thought maybe I had been shot out a canon into another area and never felt it coming...Man lived like a pig, clothes, shoes, socks, books, it was filthy and disgusting, and the only thing descent about his furnishings was a big screen tv, everything was old, smelled and broken down..Again I figured well he is a man, however little flags where waving all around...

I stayed awhile, were he then proceeded to get online, ignored my presence, and started IM with other woman, and browsing. I found this unsettling especially when he brought up one and kept stating for me to look at her breasts, then he proceeded to talk about sex in the back door area.. I found this repulsive and stated that men that talked that way had tendencies to swing on both sides. he then said sarcastically, yeah maybe so.

I then excused myself to his bathroom, so as to just leave. In there I discovered a buffet of condems and a large amount of bottled impotency pills..Anyway, when I came out of the bathroom I was suddenly caught off guard lightly pushed into his bedroom onto the bed, where he began kissing me and had his limp you know what hanging out..

I got out there as fast as I could, only as luck would have my clutch cable busted on and my vehicle wouldn't move...The loser could have cared less, and never offered assistance...

Ladies, I can't stress enough to you about watching out and looking out for those flags.. online is filled with tips for us and there are very informative and useful...They work read them, educated yourself about these kind of men, so as you don't get hurt...Also, never talk about religion, or about how you actually might handle something, In the long run it may be good to, for in case you come across another jerk as I did, who raised his voice to me and called me and animal...This is abuse...Be careful...Much luck to you all...

~April 2004

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