Dating No-No
The Singleniceguy32 = CHEATER

I logged into AOL and heard You Got Mail. Cool right. I checked it and found the mail from a guy who answered my personal ad. Much to my own curiousity I answered back such a nice reply. We had so much in common. Next I did it, I met him. We started seeing each other. One day I went over his house to find another girls clothes in his room. What in the hell!!! I asked him. He stated that it was just his ex-girlfriend who needed a place to stay. I left him alone for a little while. He called and called but I didn't talk to him.

Finally one day I pick the phone up not even thinking that it was him. It was. I didn't know what to say. Like a fool, I believed everything he said to me. We strictly only saw each other. Then after a little while later we moved in together. Everything was going great with us. After a year and half, we had a fight right after I buried my father. I told him that I thought that we needed some time apart. Being connected to the house, I moved all my things into the spare room. The next day I found out that he had been cheating on me with numeerous girls. What a stupid fool I was. I was so devastated by it. All I wanted to do is get even with him. Well I never got that chance really.

One of the girls called the house where we live and I talked to her. Apparently this is the one that he was with the most. Much to her surprise about everything, he had been lying to her too. She stopped talking to him. I tried to let him go and just couldn't seem too. I let him back into my life again. I guess asking for heartache because he got back online and did it again. He found another girl to believe his lies and many other ones to sleep with too.

Now I have told her and him that they can have each other because I don't want anything to do with him. Now, I just want to mend my heart that has been hurt so much. This is what a cheater does to you. They make you feel like this is all your fault and that you are the one to blame for them straying. Well it's not and if they love you truly and purely it would never happen. This is my story and I just wanted to share so that it just might help one person.

~by Roxanne,
October 2002

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