Dating No-No

The Gay Guy

This guy will be a great friend, but a not so faithful lover. He may just be dating women as a front so that his family and friends don't uncover his true identity. He might be going through the motions with women, but deep down, there is much stronger attraction to the same sex. This guy might not want to admit it, or might be trying to fight it, or maybe just hasn't figured it all out himself yet.

Whatever the case may be, you will end up getting hurt. It will lead to the age old question of; is it better to have your partner leave you for a member of the opposite sex or of the same sex?

So, how do you spot a gay date? If you read Gay Times you will realize that I don't have a clue. A few signs could be if he is way too pretty, if he takes longer to get ready than you do, if he brings an  umbrella and it is only drizzling out (yuppies do this to so don't take this as a sign by itself), if he is impeccably well dressed (he may just be a Virgo on this one alone), if he checks out the guys around you instead of paying attention to you. If you are the least bit suspicious, go with your gut feeling. He may seem like someone who could be a great friend, but beware of the entanglements which could evolve if he becomes something more to you, in your heart.

~Sheila, February 2001

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