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The Boy Toy
(by Temptress Storm)
Men usually hit that forty something stage where they start chasing the young girls in short skirts. Society seems to have accepted this and shrugs it off to the fact that men will be boys and this is how they deal with their mid life crisis. When a woman dates a younger man, it seems to be a cardinal sin and lips barely stop wagging about it. Sure you hear that at thirty something a woman hits her sexual peak and guys at the same age are way past theirs. Thing is, guys at thirty-something have too much baggage to deal with. An ex wife and kids, or worse, a wife who isn't an ex, but the guy is on the make anyway. A younger man is just a less stressful way to go. A boy toy has less baggage and more energy. Who can resist? They usually still have their hair in the right places and not growing in the wrong places, which is another plus.
A young man tends to respect an older woman. Likes that she is more sexually confident than her junior and is less afraid to let loose so to speak. Older woman are looked up to for their experience and sexuality. We have certain assets that come from experience and shouldn't be afraid to use them. A boy toy is eager to please his older woman more so than an older man will. They somehow seem to have a language that goes beyond grunts, and have a desire to take care of your every need and desire.
Sure, meeting their family might be a little weird, so an orphan is probably a safe choice for a boy toy, or at least one who is estranged from his family. If he is looking for a replacement mom, that won't do either. There are some things to be wary of from a boy toy, but if you know what to be on the look out for, you should be okay. If he wants you to cook and clean for him, run far away. If he wants to take you home and treat you like his queen, what have you got to lose? Maybe a night of unleashed passion and fun?
I met a younger man one evening during a gals' night out. I succumbed to peer group pressure (after several drinks) and took the lad home. Shazam! What a night. This boy toy had all the lines to make me feel great and a few moves which weren't bad at all either. I don't normally behave this way, (honest!) but the experience sure put a smile on my face that comes back when I think about the evening. It also gave me back some sexual confidence which was being lost in my thirties. Luckily one of my galfriends and I had bought some condoms the day before, purely out of flavor curiosity I swear! We wanted to know what the cherry and peppermint ones tasted like. I still don't know the answer to that one, but it taught me that curiosity doesn't always kill the cat. It can come in very handy.
Whatever you do, just make sure he is legal and that you are prepared with the condoms. Why should the old guys have all the fun? You deserve some too don't you? I know I do.
~Temptress Storm
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